I want to make VERY clear something. The story told on ABC Primetime does NOT represent all transgendered people. It is my families story only, and each transgendered person should be given unique consideration. Therefore, I will ONLY be discussing OUR story... not offering comment, or offering opinions to the transgendered community or other transgendered individuals.
There has been some questions regarding my Chromosomal variance "Kleinfelters Syndrome" (KS) also know as 47 XXY.
I am a 47 XXY "Mosaic" KS person. The ABC piece did not make that clear enough, but makes a huge difference. Regular 47 XXY KS people are usually sterile, but Mosaic KS people are [in some cases] able to have children because not all their body's chromosomes are XXY. Rather, some chomosoms are just plain old XY.
Feel free to check out PINKessence - a Transgender Social Networking site I founded which is part of the NING network. PE is now over 1300+ members and growing strong. If you enjoy Facebook, you will enjoy some of the Facebook style features PINKessence has to offer you. Aside from the Transgender members, PE has many families, spouses, co-workers and supportive friends of the Transgender Community among its membership - feel free to give it a try! All are welcome to apply.
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Our family would like to again thank ABC studios for handling this story with sensitivity, and class. Thank you...
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On July 21st 2009, my family and I will be the focus of an ABC Primetime Television series called “Family Secrets”. The show centers around the rather unusual circumstance for transitioning my gender presentation from Male to Female, and how it has affected and changed the dynamics of those in my life.
I ask that you watch this episode with an open heart and open mind, reserve judgment, and understand this is only my story, and does not represent all Transgender or intersexed people.
For those that have written to me asking a lot of heavy handed questions, should be forewarned; this episode is not about exercising any agenda’s for the LGBT community. If you’re looking for political correctness or walls to be broken through by this story, you will be disappointed. However, if you are looking for the honesty told from compelling innocence, without bias or reservation to share, then you will want to look forward to the episode.
To prepare for the episode, I was given good media relations tips by people like Dona Rose, Jenny Boylan, Mara Kiesling and even Calpernia Adams. In December of 2008, I drove to New York and met with the ABC Producer, where we discussed the episode. There I was able to give my thoughts and ideas on how to best present our story and to also understand more about what I was getting into. Needless to say, before accepting the opportunity, we carefully discussed certain aspects that were important, like language, terminology, and other stereotypes that I wished to avoid – like putting on make-up in the mirror and the rolling up the panty hose scenes. I wanted to bring dignity to the subject, and therefore, only agreed to be on camera doing things any other woman would do normally.
Looking forward to watching it.
ReplyDeletewhat an incredible story, chloe. i am also really looking forward to the show. hopefully you will be an inspiration to many others who continue to struggle with their identity - no matter their sexuality or race.
ReplyDeleteyou always will be one of my bff's... tv star or not. I love you for your honest heart and that you are willing to put yourself out there. Cant wait to watch the show and catch up when I see you next. Atlanta? hope so.
ReplyDeleteGood luck with the show Chloe and I'd love to have the html code for my blog
ReplyDeleteChloe, I am so proud of who you are. There are as many takes on trans as there are trans people. I like yours...and I don't even know you!
ReplyDeleteBe strong in the coming days. I fear there's going to be some flak...and I think it's going to come from within...so, thick skin may be an asset! Lay off the cream for a while!!
Loads of love...
Just finished watching the show and have one thing to say.
ReplyDeleteWow Chloe, Wow. I wish only the best for all of you. You were all very brave, and I hope this brings healing and hope to your family and everyone else touched by the show. You Rock!
I have just watched the special. Thank you for sharing your story with the rest of us. It was very touching. Chloe, I am crying. I am very happy for you, and wish you every happiness. Be strong and keep following your heart. If you ever get to Pittsburgh, you (all) are welcome at my home anytime. Hug.......
ReplyDeleteI saw your special, it was very a very touching story. I really want to thank you for sharing your experiences with us.
ReplyDeleteI watched with my kids tonight the ABC special. You are very brave to tell your story and I think you did well. Your wife and kids are to be admired and I wish you well.
ReplyDeleteI think ABC of course did their best to add a bit of drama, but it was a nice story and helped transfolk.
High Chloe, I was compelled to send you a message of love, hope and support, after watching your story on ABC. Thank you so much for sharing your life's experience. You are a shining bright Star sent from Heaven above to show this world more truth in who we are as human beings. God loves you; me and mine love you. Tony from Las Vegas
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ReplyDeleteI wandered here from afterellen.com and just wanted to say hi and thank you for sharing your life so candidly. I haven't seen the ABC show but I'll be keeping an eye out and checking back in here.
There is not a way that I can properly express, into verbiage, as my skillz in proper English usage is not the greatest...but be that as it may, dear Chloe, I do want to thank you very VERY much for agreeing to(and of course, your wife, and everyone else in your family also!) to being interviewed by ABC...and, I know this was part of your reasoning--to show to the world that "we", are just as important, relevant, "sane", as any other "group", and although I haven't viewed this program yet(I don't have tv reception now....long story...hopefully a friend remembered to record it!), I did watch that 5 minute piece on their website(must be the same one you have here, via YouTube?), so, I know that, at least from you and Rene's end of it, it was done with taste and class. So, I look forward to watching it, hopefully with a special friend(different from the friend I mentioned earlier....MUCH different, if you know what I mean >wink<) this weekend! Thank you, dear girl--you'v made SUCH a positive inpact on my life, and many other girls...and now, hopefully, at the least, you have educated some of those "civilians" out there....something I wanted to mention in my comment to the piece on the Primetime Live website, but ran out of space, oh well, I made most of my point there. Anyway hon, take care, and best wishes for you, Rene, and those precious boys of yours! Take care (HUGS)
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I am so glad I happend to catch a promo commercial for last night's ABC Primetime special. You and your family are quite impressive and inspirational. I left wanting to know more- not as a voyeur but as a supporter. A quick Google search and I found your website- a way to remain connected to you and your journey. Thank you for showing the world that healthy individuals and families come in all forms! Everyone featured in the story is incredible but today I am still thinking about your boys and their love for both of their moms. By best to you and your family.
ReplyDeleteChloe you did a wonderful job, thank you, you’re very beautiful and brave. I still cant get over some of the horrible comments people were saying during your webcast last night. Personally I think that people that hate that much will find any reason to hate wither its gender or any thing else, it’s in their heart.
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Randomly caught the show last night- amazing story and can't imagine how hard some parts are. Your wife Rene is an amazing woman, understanding and accepting even if she doesn't fully understand or accept it. Although she misses her husband I hope you show her you love her everyday even if not in affection. I was happiest to see your boys just wanting you each to be happy- that's that hardest part.
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ReplyDeleteA well done piece Chloe. I read it as very honest in all regards. All the best to you and your family.
ReplyDeleteLove and deep respect,
Jackie
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ReplyDeleteIn the UK I woke at 5am so caught some of your live tv chat. You did an amazing job fielding those questions, even from the ignorant and stupid who tried to bully you. The only break you got was to open the door to tell the maid to come back later!
ReplyDeleteTV will tell their story, hope they told enough of your story.
One day there will be no story to tell but meantime the public still needs more like this, thanks for your contribution on the road to acceptance.
Caroline x
When I saw a preview for the show it caught my eye. I was suprised to find out you were from Ohio and even more suprised when I saw your son's school t-shirt and realized we live 2 miles from each other.
ReplyDeleteI admire you for being so open with the world, not hiding your real name or location or anything like that. I admire you for following your heart even though it meant changing your family dynamics and your marriage. I admire Renee for staying in the relationship. Best wishes for whatever the future brings.
Chloe, your story had me in tears. I watched it with my daughter and was proud to tell her that you were a friend of mine. She was amazed, as was my best friend, that I actually know you. Your story, while heart breaking is also inspiring. It shows that while the road may be a little long and very difficult there IS hope. I'm so glad that you were able to do that show. And Lordy woman, you look freakin fantastic! YOU GO GIRL! Don't hold back, girlie, reach for your dreams:) Love ya,
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ReplyDeleteI watched this episode on ABC. What caught my attention one day I was surfing yahoo and I pulled up local for my area it came up with this as headline news the story of Chloe Prince. I'm very happy I took the time to watch this episode. Chloe truley is a modern day marvel and inspiration for many to look up to.
ReplyDeleteFirst, I would like to say that I am sick and tired of transgendered women and girls who act like their lives are so bad and getting huge amounts of money and being eligible for surgery is so easy. Well guess what, I am a transgendered girl and I am not eligible for any type of surgery because it will likely kill me since I have a genetic condition that renders me incapable of going anywhere without the use of mobility devices. I also take necessary medications that would have adverse effects if combined with female hormones. I cannot afford makeup or jewelry or even girls clothing for that matter. A lot of what I own was not legally obtained. I am employed on and off and most of my family hates me. I only have strength because of the belief that god will set me free. I am openly transgendered and I have a major physical disability that is progressive. Thats a real story.
ReplyDeleteI just watched the show online, after a friend uploaded it (can't stream it as I'm in the UK). Amongst the best I've seen - thoughtful, sensitive and non judgemental. It just let your story, and your family's story, speak for themselves.
ReplyDeleteI remember the despair so clearly. I had my 'motorcycle moment' (though mine was very different) too, and, like you, what talked me down (in my case) was my love for my chidren. Sadly, things didn't work out for me in the family.
I think you, and your family, (and ABC) have done a service to the greater understanding of what this issue does...how real it is...what it causes. You wrote that this was your family's story, and so it was, but in it - as ever - I found so much of my experience too.
I want my friends to see it.
So thanks Chloe, and very best of luck to you and your wife, and to your kids. I have a hunch you'll all do fine.